Not this time…………………. Merry Christmas!!

Not this time, I’m holding your fist this time
Your hand ain’t hitting my cheeks this time!
I’m done playing your dog
My mother birth a child not a maid
You said you loved me, I wonder why you quit showing it?
Just because I decided to stay late with the girls doesn’t mean I’m irresponsible!
If you dare look into my eyes and call me fat and disgusting I’m going to smash your head against the wall!!
Didn’t we both have the children?
 I conceived them, you put them in me!!
We willingly entered this partnership together
 We called our marriage
It feels like two big business moguls in the same building
Who have different interests!
Not this time!
I’m not attending to your every need
You ain’t riding me like a horse tonight
I will dictate the position I want to play
And that’s if I feel like acting!
Right now I’m getting two glasses, go get the wine!
We’ll drink and eat the left overs of our marriage!
Like we’re supposed to do
There’s no way out of this deal
I threw the keys away the day I said for better or worse!
While you said for better or whores
Sit down and be a man
Don’t ever judge me again for the remaining years I have with you
Till I bury you as the tradition does
Let GOD be the judge
And let man live by HIS rules
Merry Christmas!!!!


Seriously what are you doing with your time!!

I read two articles in one way or another they were talking about the same subject, on Ynaija!, it was about Fmr. President Obasanjo, being afraid of the youth of today, about that the rise of unemployment and the second by Isioma Osaje about young people not getting a job but prefer being on twitter. But the fear on everyone’s mind is, for the upcoming youth having the power of the nation and the world at large in their hands! And we are not prepared!

I was talking to my classmate that do these people know that the job market is very competitive now, it’s not about your certificates, but what you have to offer, the employers know that the school system needs help they are not really teaching what’s needed in the market and the students are just in school to pass exams and not to learn.

Not too long I was telling a young man to be productive and stop doing nothing all day, but dedicating all he has to observing sports, listen to music and get to know the latest dance steps, I began to explain if at all you like these things so much why don’t you write stories on the things you watch on these sporting channels! Stop being a consumer, my former I.T will always say, you Nigerians keep on consuming and importing isn’t there anyone that has the idea of creating one these things you buy from foreign nations

I attended a leadership summit by Annabel Leadership Academy, between the 11th and 12th of December 2012, various dignitaries graced the occasion from political people Senator Obi, Fmr. Gov Donald Duke, Prof. Dora and the list goes on, to the entertainment industry, Ben Bruce, Genevieve, Omotola, Ali Baba and many more and they addressed many issues concerning, Leadership, unemployment and how to move the nation forward.

There were some remarkable contribution I would like to share…..

Leo Stan Ekeh, “CEO Zinux”
“In 21st Century all are called and all are chosen”
“You must be strong morally and spiritually and you must have style”
“When you make decision forget your emotions” “Build yourself as a “collateral”
“Be innovative, Ethical, Disciplined, and Flexible”

Fmr. Gov. Donald Duke…… 
“A true leader must know himself”, “don’t short-change yourself”
He gave a scenario, where David Beckham couldn’t play a match, but he coached from the line and lead his men to victory, you can only do this if you know yourself, and not being emotional about making decisions.

Pat Utomi…………….. “If you don’t know you can’t lead”, it’s not compulsory you know everything, nobody wants to follow a leader who has no sense of direction.
“You must have sense of service’’, “Courage to stand for what you believe in”, “Leadership is a process”, “Leadership can be learnt’’

Ben Bruce………. “You must have a plan”, “You must know your history”.


Prof. Dora Akunyili
“Apply emotional Intelligence to carry and pull people along”, “When you walk the talk, you make aggregate, mass and effective change”, “For you to do the right thing you have to keep clean hands”  “Be Courageous, Principled, Prudent”  

Prof. George Obiozor “Choose your enemies wisely” “Learn from others”
Senator Ben Obi “Leadership is not having the best of everything, but making the best of anything”

Ali Baba, “Always hit the Reset Button”, “Self Development” “Don’t drop your leadership level” (Don’t settle for less as you grow)

Omotola and Genevieve ....... “Nigerians should be creative”

Dr. William Tiga Tita
Leadership is like salt, if it’s too much people would complain, if it’s too little people would grumble but if it’s just enough nobody says anything about it, have you ever heard anybody say there about enough salt in a food.

Ali Baba, Tonye Cole of Sahara group, Ogbo, Nicolas Okoye (Host) and many other speakers, emphasized on the youths that they not being employable at all, at least “most”, they may have good certificates but they do not have anything upstairs.

The youths really are not capable, most of the job openings usually handed out; sometimes a thousand people come for the job opening and only a minute number of people do qualify for the job, and sometimes none.

The older generations are so concerned about the upcoming generation, that they do not entrust any role in our hands.

We all hated Gaddafi and his government, but see what happens when government changed hands, Egyptians are still on the streets, while Gaddafi is long gone.

Will we be ever ready? Yes! I assure you! I was preparing for an exam in year 2 and I told my classmate that we are all not studying hard, he says to me, no matter how much you think everyone is playing there’re still some people studying.

There are still some people preparing and working hard towards, self-development, leadership and doing their best the way they can in their own field.

I’m not really worried about this upcoming generation, about not being prepared and serious at all, because producers are always less than the consumers, on the stage is a star in the audience are a million fans, don’t be bothered to enter a room and find a few or nobody with leadership qualities.
Many are called few are chosen Matt 22:14………………………


Virtous lady (I will wait)

I refused to be distracted
By the different shapes and sizes flaunting in my face
Their various complexions
Do not have my attention
People always asking me the question
Why wait?
Why not wait?
They think I’m looking for the one with the V
I say there is a better V!
I’m in the board room meeting
And she’s the one chairing the occasion
I knew she was the one
She was different
She was not the best
She’s the only best
Merchants deliver her food
From afar!
That explains her price tag
Every story of her history
Is laced with greatness
Success is like everyday coffee to her
She doesn’t bother about excellence
Her being is excellent
She wears an expensive perfume not for being classy
It’s just her worth!!!
She doesn’t suit up because she has to
For it’s the only way to represent her prestige
Precepts and values, consistency and diligence, hard work and discipline
Are on her like tattoos
If she could only allow me to go on one knee for her……..
I promise to never cheat
No matter how the drums our marriage beats
No matter how much the temperature heats…..
I promise never to go with another under the sheets
I’ve said my byes to other ladies to say hi to you.
I came prepared for your heart
Not only with words or actions but with dedication
That there’s no one for me you’re my conclusion
Because without a doubt
You’re the woman in Proverbs 31…….

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;

    but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Pro 31:30